Assume

Why do you have to assume? Why can't you get the facts? because you know once you assume you are always going to have that hate towards a person and nothing said will fix it. Even if you found out what you assumed is wrong. So, people please don't assume thing. And if you do don't set them in stone in your mind, so that even when you find out the truth you still have the mind set of somthing that never happened... (note: with dramatic people this wont work...just give up, let them make their life more dramamtic, they want to and that's what they will do until they go through 100's of friends who can't put up with their bullshit anymore.)